When I was pregnant, I just got very frustrated. Don’t eat deli meats, do this particular prenatal test. Why did you make that choice? Why didn’t you make a different choice? I felt like I was being told to do things, and I never got the answer to why. …

The first is that I unlinked my credit card from my car-sharing apps. Instead, I linked a debit card that only had 300 dollars a month. If I needed more, I had to go through the whole process of adding a new card, and we know that every click…